When away camping in the bush, each campsite becomes a transient home from home. Why we feel more at home at some campsites than at others is hard to say.
Camping may attract people because it is a more affordable option or because it is an outdoor experience where campers feel closer to nature. For others camping can be a kind of a hobby with a focus on acquiring state-of-the-art gear. Some online camping forums host discussions where people swop tips on expensive gear, which may seem arcane to outsiders content with less equipment.

Our camp at one of the four Kori campsites at the Central Kalahari Game Reserve
When it comes to camping, I am drawn to places where camping is the only option and where camping best fits in with our desire to feel more immersed in nature. The Central Kalahari Game Reserve in Botswana offers campsites (and no hutted accommodation) to visitors. The rustic campsites are far apart from each other, and some individual campsites are kilometres away from each other. Facilities are basic or non-existent, and visitors have to be self-sufficient regarding water, vehicle fuel and firewood (which may not be collected in the park). No water at all is available at campsites (only non-drinking brackish borehole water is available at the gate) and no vehicle fuel is obtainable in the park. When we last visited the park, the nearest available fuel, although not always available even there, was at a village (Rakops) about 50 kilometres from the main (Matswere) gate into the reserve. The road between the village and the reserve is slow to traverse. The road includes stretches of deep sand, and in the rainy season, notable for sudden dramatic rain storms, deep patches of mud can be treacherous.

We missed the concealed detour off to the right just before the first patch of water in the photo above. We had assumed that a vehicle ahead had gone through it. We nearly got into trouble but managed to precariously plough through the water and mud. It was only later that we found we had lost the front number plate in the process
The Central Kalahari Game Reserve in the heart of Botswana is a unique place to visit. Established in 1961, it is the second largest nature reserve in the world. It covers an area of 52,800 km² (20,400 square miles) and is part of the vast sandy Kalahari Basin. The area contains expanses of open grasslands, semi-arid shrub savanna and scrub, acacia tree islands, sand ridges and dunes, ancient fossil river beds, enormous salt pans and many smaller pans and depressions that seasonally retain water after heavy rains.

This is a view from just below our Kori campsite

The moon rising above the trees surrounding our camp on our visit in April 2016

The campfire not only cooks supper. It also provides a focal point as darkness falls – home is where the hearth is
Locked down at home during this Covid-19 pandemic, I have been thinking about connotations of home – what makes one feel at home? Is home an actual place, the dwelling or region where one lives, or is it more a place in one’s heart, a location of sentiment or nostalgia? Is home a permanent place or building or is it something one takes along or finds on the road? And what of exile – for those in exile or where home is not a place of safety is “home” always a place of longing?
Being at home during the current lockdown instead of being away on our previously planned holiday, I revisit in my mind the Central Kalahari Game Reserve and our trips there in 2012 and 2016, and I find it is a place that has made a home in my memory and imagination. Each campsite that we stayed at had a special atmosphere where is seemed that the sand, wind and sunshine had removed the presence of previous visitors, as happened too after our brief presence. We were but transitory there, but its effect on us has been permanent.

The solitary campsite near Leopard Pan
Some small animals and birds have become habituated to the presence of human visitors at the campsites, and they have made themselves quite at home in these places – some literally so, building their nests or making their burrows at the camps.

These Cape (or South African) ground squirrels foraging on plants on the edge of our Kori campsite had ventured forth from their nearby burrows

A little more wary than other campsite visitors, this swallow-tailed bee-eater perches on a nearby tree from where it hawks insects

Red-headed finches also hung around the campsite

The colourful violet-eared waxbills were also occasional visitors

Making itself at home, a male broad-tailed paradise whydah sporting his breeding plumage

Shaft-tailed whydas were frequent visitors to the Kori campsite

A visiting Cape starling, showing off its glossy plumage against the sand

An inquisitive African red-eyed bulbul observing us in our camp

At the single campsite near Leopard Pan, we camped alone in the shade of the lovely purple-pod Terminalia trees that provide nesting sites for white-browed sparrow-weavers. The industriousness and chattiness of these birds helped us feel right at home

At home in the entrance to its seemingly messy but ingenious nest is a white-browned sparrow-weaver at the Leopard Pan campsite. Each nest has two entrances, but one is sealed off to confuse predators

Me, washing some clothes being as frugal as possible with water, at the Leopard Pan campsite. Behind me is the shower shelter and to the right of that is the enclosure for the long-drop toilet
Because our 2016 stay in the park was for three weeks, we were heavily laden with the water and fuel required to last us for this time. Our water was carefully rationed and our bucket washes limited us to one litre of water per daily wash, with a bit extra on hair-washing days. We did not have enough water to take advantage of the shower bucket that can be seen hanging up in the shower shelter.

Very active and generally secretive and so difficult to photograph are the brilliant crimson-breasted shrikes, regular visitors at many of the campsites in the Central Kalahari Game Reserve

Me preparing lunch at one of the three Passarge Valley campsites, where each of the campsites are 18 km apart
On both our visits, we camped at the third Passarge Valley campsite, which is elevated on a ridge above the valley from where one has a great view of the sunset. The shade trees add to its homely feel and the trees provide places to hang pots and other bits and pieces.
Any rubbish that cannot be burned in the fire, we collect in a bag to take out with us when we leave. While camping we hang the secured bag from a rope high in a tree out of reach of animals. There are no monkeys or baboons in such arid regions.

I took this photo as a bit of a joke as I thought it looked a bit “out of Africa-ish” – but actually I am very proud of these bags, which I made myself. I am a reluctant sewer and learnt how to make these bags from bloggers who generously share their expertise on the Internet. These bags, easily stashed in the vehicle, contain our clothing for our three-week stay in the park. The mat is to try to keep sand out of the bags and clothing

Not aesthetically pleasing but helping us to feel at home is the convenience of small table holding a basin containing water for hand washing and a cake of soap. A pot of drinking water and a mug is also at hand. As it rained the previous night we were able to collect rainwater using a tarpaulin, hence the buckets. Note the trusty spade – used for the fire place and also for digging toilet holes. Toilet paper is burned before the hole is covered over

A gorgeous sunset seen from our Passarge Valley campsite
Perhaps our favourite camp where we felt most at home is in the splendid solitude of the Phokoje campsite. Amenities comprise a lone tree and a washing area that is just a concrete slab. The long-drop toilet was filled to the brim with rubbish bags left behind by selfish tourists. But one does not go to the Central Kalahari for bathroom facilities!

Camping under the lone tree at Phokoje campsite. Our trusty roof-top tent means that our sleeping area is away from the sand and the thorns. Phokoje means ‘jackal’ and in fact we did see black-backed jackals in the area

Getting ready to cook supper at Phokoje campsite as the last of the sunset colours the sky
The campsite nearest to Phokoje is 30 km away. Camping there at night is perhaps the furthest we have been spent time away from other humans. The sense of remoteness was profound and the intense silence was broken only by the grunting and roaring of a pride of lions, and the velvety darkness was punctuated only by stars. While there we felt perfectly safe. The animals, even visiting birds during the day time, did not seem to be habituated to humans, with the exception of a Cape eagle-owl that landed near our fireplace at supper time, approaching us impatiently and apparently expecting a handout despite the fact that we are vegetarian.

Early the following morning we went for a drive and from the vehicle we saw this black-maned lion who was magnificently uninterested in our proximity

A black-backed jackal after which Phokoje camp takes its name. How privileged we were to get to experience feeling at home while visiting the actual home of so many wild creatures
By the way, I composed this post using the block editor for the first time – something I have been meaning to do for ages. It has some useful features, but a lack of flexibility within a block will take adjusting too. I wonder how other bloggers have found it?
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June 11, 2020 at 11:09 am
I remember your going on these trips and it was wonderful to enjoy some of their special qualities and features Carol.
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June 11, 2020 at 8:51 pm
Thanks Christine.
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June 7, 2020 at 6:02 am
I was away from the internet for quite a while due to technical issues, but Oh Carol was this a wonderful way to dive back into the web!
It looks like the Central Kalahari is just the kind of place to go recover from lockdown and COVID-anxiety. Thanks for taking us along on your remarkable trip down memory lane.
As you know, we love camping too. We’re not into all the latest and greatest gadgets either; basic is fine for us – the longer it takes to setup camp the less time we have for exploring! The one luxury I can’t do without though is a good stretcher-bed; when lying flat on the ground with a flimsy blow-up mattress that holds up for maybe half-an-hour being all that is between my sizable bulk and every little stick or stone beneath I feel like the princess tangling with the pea in Hans Christian Andersen’s fairytale…
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June 8, 2020 at 3:00 pm
I hope your technical issues are properly sorted – its tough being exiled from being online, especially now it is an even more important way of staying in touch.
The Central Kalahari is very special.
I have also had a problem with a blow-up mattress springing a leak during the night – plus blowing them up is a mission even with a pump. In addition to the princess and the pea syndrome the ground can be sooo cold!
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June 9, 2020 at 6:29 am
Luckily my blubber is excellent insulation to the cold! 😀
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June 11, 2020 at 8:50 pm
I don’t believe that!
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June 1, 2020 at 3:16 pm
Armchair travel to die for! My experiences of Africa are both limited and cosmopolitan by comparison and although I would love to experience camping in such exquisite locations I know that I lack the courage and the stamina. So thank you for this vicarious camping trip and inparticular for the marvellous photos of the birdlife! As for block editor – i tried it on a private blog and frustration levels soared instantly. I like to justify text and apparently that’s no longer possible which is a big fail in my eyes! So for the moment I shall stick with Classic but I know that support for it will be or has already been withdrawn so I suppose I will eventually make the change. Perhaps if I start to recognise the benefits, I’ll find it easier to overlook what I might lose 🙂
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June 1, 2020 at 8:08 pm
I regard myself as being rather cautious and not at all adventurous so somehow I have not considered such trips as being that venturesome until people tell me otherwise. Perhaps it says something about lack of imagination on my part 😊
Re the block editor – I think such change can be a bit of a swings and roundabouts thing, and one usually does have to compromise and even let go of some treasured aspects, but there can be payoffs where other aspects work better – for example being able to drag images easily to the desired size. If the block editor makes posting quicker (once one has become familiar with the basics) I am happy to change. Also such changes can lead to fresh approaches and it can be good to get out of ruts and learn new things, although I know that feeling of being tired of constantly having to get to grips with changes that might seem unnecessary – which is why I have left trying the block editor until now!
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June 1, 2020 at 10:22 am
Carol it was with a wistful feeling I read and enjoyed your lovely post, I really miss being on the move out in the mountains and beyond, but this really helped, thank you! xxx
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June 1, 2020 at 7:44 pm
Wistful is the perfect word conveying a kind of gentle longing. I do try to focus more on distractions that provide a measure of comfort in these times and divert my attention away from all the anxiety and sadnesses.
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June 2, 2020 at 6:16 am
Yes, it definitely helps to try and focus on positive aspects and projects! xxxx
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May 31, 2020 at 5:08 am
Oh that is wonderful! – so enjoyed your camping experiences and lovely photographs. Your bird pics are exquisite as always. What wonderful memories to treasure. I am fairly new to camping – being a single mom has not been conducive to many camping trips. Now however I have a wonderful nature loving man to share camping trips with. I totally agree that it should not be about the expensive high tech gear but more about the experience. Your bags look awesome! Would love a link to the pattern if you still have it Carol.
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May 31, 2020 at 7:17 pm
Thank you Carol. Preparing this post did bring back lots of great memories and we wonder when we will be able to travel to such places again. I hope that you will have the opportunity to go on camping before too long. Lovely to have a partner who shares your love of nature.
Re the bags, I am sorry but I don’t have a pattern. I looked at lots of patterns online for making duffel bags and weekend bags and adapted some ideas to make bags the shape and sizes I wanted based on a canvas bag I saw in a camping shop. Each bag has a flat rectangular top with a zip down the middle. I made them out of drill and lined them with unbleached calico. It turned out to be easier than I expected although a bit fiddly. Perhaps if you browse online patterns for weekend/duffel bags you may find something you like.
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May 30, 2020 at 9:20 pm
I’m always amazed at the variety of birds you have and the great photos you get of them. I would think the prospect of getting stuck or breaking down would be worrying since getting a mechanic or tow truck to visit is pretty unlikely. But it’s surely worth doing to end up in such remote and beautiful places. Here the only camping I’d be interested in is in Volcanoes Park and one or two other off the beaten path places. But these are backpacking trips and my back would not appreciate that anymore.
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May 31, 2020 at 7:03 pm
Yes backpacking with a tent is demanding! Not something I would want to do either.
We have taken risks travelling alone to relatively remote places and sometimes we think we have used up a lot of luck. I have considered renting a satellite phone for the remoter trips especially where there are not a lot of other travelers, so as to be able to communicate with someone if we get stuck – but then my husband says: who you gonna call? Which is a good question!
In southern Africa the birds are indeed amazing. In the arid zones their colours are even more striking against the sand and dry vegetation.
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June 1, 2020 at 4:34 am
Who you gonna call, indeed. But it sounds like you’re both pretty practical for figuring out how to fix problems that come up. That counts for a lot.
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June 1, 2020 at 7:29 pm
My husband has figured out how to make a plan to keep us going in the face of quite a few vehicle problems and mishaps – and we have been lucky. Even when/if travelling does become possible again, we are likely to take a more cautious approach. So we are glad we did what we did when we were younger!
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May 30, 2020 at 6:04 am
Hello Carol,
It was a real treat to view this series today, and therapy for the soul during these crazy times.
Thank you for sharing. Your handmade bags are lovely 🙂
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May 31, 2020 at 6:54 pm
Thanks so much Takami. I do need to look for therapeutic distractions during these times, which in many ways do seem crazy. Often really hard to believe …
Glad you like the bags!
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May 29, 2020 at 7:44 pm
Wow! What a lovely post. The birds (especially the waxbill, I think) are stunning. The lion and the jackal are both majestic in their own ways. And there is something special about tent life. I have only camped briefly in Africa – in Tarangire in Tanzania – but have spent three field seasons in a tent in various countries.
I, too, was reflecting on the nature of ‘home’ at the start of this crisis. It is rare to define a wild animal’s home as its literal sleeping place. If my ‘territory’ was mapped in the same way as a fox’s, it would of course include regular walking routes, supermarkets, places where I communicate with others of my species. The wider wild landscape is a major part of my sense of home too.
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May 29, 2020 at 7:58 pm
Thanks Adele. Yes that waxbill is exceptional in both colour and conformation. I love seeing jackals – the are much maligned but they form lifelong pair bonds and witnessing the affection expressed between mates is very touching.
Yes, tent life is special and very grounding.
It would be good if could all extend our sense of home to the wider and wilder world, and by extension to the planet as a whole …
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May 29, 2020 at 2:10 pm
Marvelous.Which I was there now.
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May 29, 2020 at 7:52 pm
Thanks Edith. We have to content ourselves with knowing that it is still there …
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May 29, 2020 at 8:34 am
You must surely be mourning your cancelled trips into the bush. Reading this post and seeing your remarkable photographs has stirred a great yearning in me to be in the wild. (Last year this time we were walking through the Baviaans.)
I was also taken with your analysis of the concept of home. It reminded me of a book that had a profound effect on me: The Song of the Earth by Jonathan Bate (Picador, 2001). He explores the idea of home in poetic detail before ecology became “fashionable”.
And last, but not least, I am most impressed with your bags. You have every reason to be very proud, especially as you say you are not a sewer!
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May 29, 2020 at 7:51 pm
We are fairly philosophical about cancelling our trip, especially when taking a broader view of all that is unfolding across the globe,
Thanks for the reference for the book by Jonathan Bate. I was reading an article recently on the idea that we should see the Earth as our home rather than as a repository of resources to be ruthlessly exploited.
Thanks for your comments re the bags. It was an interesting exercise. A bit fiddly but worth it. I was partly inspired by some very expensive bags I saw in a camping shop and I thought … surely they can’t be that difficult to make?
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May 29, 2020 at 5:26 am
I theoretically embrace the idea of the camping experiences you describe. But only theoretically. I’d make a poor pioneer unfortunately. But you demonstrate the rewards of making the effort, and those bags are terrific accompaniments to your travels! Block editor? Terrifying. If it ever becomes obligatory, I’m sunk. I’ve tried, unsuccessfully, a few times. Will you persist?
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May 29, 2020 at 7:44 pm
For me what turned theory into practice is that without camping some places cannot be experienced and that is a strong incentive, so camping is a means rather than being an end in itself
I gather that even in the block editor, the old editor, referred to as Classic, will remain an option. I read some guidelines on using the block editor before I tried it and I found that the adjustment is not that enormous and some of the features are time saving so I will carry on using it and hopefully I will continue learning as I go!
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May 29, 2020 at 5:12 am
Oh to travel again! This was a wonderful trip that you have shared – a great reminder of the wonderful places that await us. I have tried the block editor once but cannot find the tags and categories. You have done very well.
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May 29, 2020 at 7:37 pm
It is good to remember that such wonderful places are out there.
Re the block editor – the way I found the Tags and Categories options was to click on the block settings icon (top right of screen). A sidebar opens up with two options: Document or Block. Select Document, and Tags and Category options become available. I think I will shift to using the Block editor from now on as there are features I have discovered already that I like.
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May 30, 2020 at 4:54 am
Thank you for this advice.
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May 29, 2020 at 2:59 am
Such exquisite scenery. I really love the birds, Carol!
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May 29, 2020 at 7:32 pm
Thanks Sandy. The landscapes there are breathtaking. The variety of birds is an endless source of delight too.
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May 28, 2020 at 11:33 pm
Nice bit of armchair travel, Carol, with wonderful photos to enhance the experience! Not sure I’d be comfortable so close to lions and hyenas, however! 😉
I haven’t camped in about ten years, and since I now need to be close to a bathroom, probably won’t go again, hehe. But sometimes, I think about how nice it would be to bed down in a soft mattress of moss and pine needles and listen to the crickets all about me. 🙂
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May 29, 2020 at 7:30 pm
The moss and pine needle mattress sounds most appealing. Perhaps the idea can be adapted for daytime naps?
What I was most uncomfortable about on that trip was the condition of the roads. I was nervous about a heavy rain storm as the resulting mud can be most formidable and we were travelling alone. Preserved in dry mud ruts and hollows was plenty of evidence of vehicles that had got seriously stuck in deep mud prior to our visit … The other thing that made me nervous was if something went wrong with the vehicle that we would not be able to fix, We have been very lucky on all our trips where we have been able to ‘make a plan’ even when things went wrong. Our most unlikely success years back in Lesotho was permanently sealing a hole in the petrol tank with chewing gum – especially chewed for the purpose!
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May 30, 2020 at 2:43 am
The epitome of self-reliance! 🙂
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May 31, 2020 at 6:50 pm
😊
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