I am back and logging on again after some absence from the blogosphere. My husband became ill very suddenly and had to be hospitalized.
He is home now and recovering after five days in hospital for treatment and tests. To our immense relief the tests all came back clear, and eventually he responded to treatment for severe head pain. In addition, as he had shoulder surgery a month ago, he endured all that with one arm in a sling.
Due to Covid-19, no hospital visits are permitted and it really brought home to us the awfulness of the isolation from family and friends of patients in hospital during the ongoing pandemic. And just to be clear, my husband tested negative for Covid-19.

Our dog Amy last year logged on in her own way. I hasten to add the cut wood is from an invasive alien tree in our garden
Now that my husband’s health crisis seems to be over and he is recovering slowly I have logged back on. I intend to resume blogging once a week but will see how I go I as my husband continues to need a bit of looking after as he recuperates.
I am really sorry that I have not been able to read other blogs and especially the blogs that I regularly follow. I have missed that and I feel out of touch. I will try to catch up but realistically I probably won’t be able to go that far back in time. However, I do hope that I am able to read at least current blogs as soon as possible.

Bronze mannikins (Lonchura cucullata) on a twig that is just about log-sized for these very small birds
Today we are having wonderfully soft spring rains and we are very fortunate as this is a blessing denied much of the rest of the country, with many regions still suffering from several years of prolonged drought. But here, as I write this I can hear the clicking calls of river frogs at the pond and the occasional calling of a fiery-necked nightjar.

This female collared sunbird (Hedydipna collaris) perches jauntily while eyeing flowers of a Natal bottle brush (Greyia sutherlandii). It is only the male collared sunbird that sports a ‘collar’

And here she is enjoying nectar from the flowers
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September 26, 2021 at 8:13 pm
Your photos of the sunbird are absolutely stunning. What a beautiful bird and have a special to have it enjoy being nearby.
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October 1, 2021 at 10:49 am
Thanks Carol. Yes we are fortunate in that several species of sunbird are regular visitors to our flowering plants.
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September 26, 2021 at 8:12 pm
I’m so very glad to hear that your husband is on the mend, Carol! I actually have missed the entire month of September myself on the blogosphere, as my daughter got married and my children from Israel came to visit for a month. I pray that your husband continues to have a very positive and speedy return to full strength, and that his shoulder is in good working order soon, too!
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October 1, 2021 at 10:48 am
Thanks very much for your good wishes. He continues to do well and has finally shed the sling he had to keep his arm in post the shoulder op.
How great that your family could reunite and spend time together as well as celebrate your daughter’s marriage. With the advent of the pandemic, being able to reunite with family across countries can no longer be taken for granted, so it must have been even more special that you were able to do this.
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September 21, 2021 at 9:39 am
Hello Carol,
I am so sorry to hear that you and your husband had to go through such a challenging time! I am relieved to to hear he is on the road to recovery. I agree, healthcare workers go through so much and all the more so given the global situation.
Please do continue to take care, and thank you for letting us know.
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September 23, 2021 at 4:43 pm
Thank you very much Takami.
I have great respect for healthcare workers and for their commitment through such awful times.
My husband is recovering though very slowly with a few setbacks along the way. The main thing is that the general direction is one of improvement.
Sending best wishes.
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September 19, 2021 at 6:08 am
So sorry to hear this Carol – what an awful thing. I hope the rest of his recovery is smooth. Covid has certainly complicated everything to do with medicine and made already stressful situations even worse.
That sunbird has huge feet!
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September 23, 2021 at 4:41 pm
Yes Covid has many complications. thanks for your kind thoughts.
I also noticed the sunbird’s feet and wondered if it did not have some kind of abnormality or even disease in the feet but I have not been able to find anything out to confirm that.
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September 18, 2021 at 4:47 pm
Good to read that! And take the time you need, Carol!
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September 23, 2021 at 4:29 pm
Thanks very much Simone. The recovery process is being a bit slower than we anticipated, but at least he is generally on the mend.
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September 17, 2021 at 7:08 pm
I am relieved to hear your husband is on the mend but that must have been quite stressful to go through – especially not being able to go visit 😦 Prayers for continued recovery and healing!
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September 23, 2021 at 4:27 pm
Thank you very much M.B. He is still very weak but is recovering slowly.
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September 17, 2021 at 2:10 pm
I was enchanted by your photograph of the collared sunbird at the start of your post and then distressed to read about your husband’s illness. Sending thoughts and strength your way for a quick recovery.
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September 23, 2021 at 4:26 pm
Thanks so much Mariss. The sunbird is an enchanting little bird. Thanks for your kind thoughts. My husband is recovering, but rather slowly with a few setbacks. The main thing is that the general trajectory is one of improvement, for which we are grateful.
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September 17, 2021 at 12:22 pm
Oh dear, Carol, what a terrible and stressful time for you, but so pleased to hear that your husband is back home and on the mend. Such a relief! Lucky you to have some rain. Was it mainly in the midlands? I love how your dog ‘is logging on’! Wishing you both all the best, and that you husband has a speedy recovery.
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September 23, 2021 at 4:24 pm
Thanks so much Megan. It has been stressful but it is good that he is home. He is mending slowly and needs lots of rest.
The rain has mostly been coastal and mostly on the eastern side of the country including in the Midlands. We have had a couple of rainy days since and a few forecast next week, which is wonderful. Apparently Jhb region is still very dry.
Our dog was rather proud of herself for navigating her way to the top of the pile of wood!
Thanks very much for your good wishes.
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September 26, 2021 at 2:39 am
We are quite dry here, and hoping that the forecast of rain next week materialises.
Your dog has got the sweetest expression on her face! Friends in Howick are looking after their daughters dog temporarily and the dog, Honey, looks so much like your dog.
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September 26, 2021 at 9:05 pm
I hope you do get the forecast rain.
Funnily enough our dog Amy we got from the Howick SPCA. Although Africanis-type dogs can be very similar, imagine the coincidence if the dog Honey turns out to be Amy’s sister! She did have a paler creamy-coloured sister. We adopted her as a puppy in 2011. The third pup was male and black in colour.
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September 26, 2021 at 10:39 pm
That would be an amazing coincidence if they were related! In the photo Honey looks younger than 10yo, and she was rescued in Mooi River. I’ll find out how old she is.
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October 1, 2021 at 10:57 am
Perhaps stretching coincidence too far! Amy was rescued in Merrivale.
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September 17, 2021 at 11:19 am
So many shocks to the system, Carol. Wishing you and other half fair following winds, and a good putting-behind of stressful times.
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September 23, 2021 at 4:19 pm
Thanks very much Tish. My husband’s recovery is very slow with a few setbacks along the way. We just have to focus on where he has improved and know that he is on the mend.
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September 17, 2021 at 10:04 am
Carol, I’m so pleased that your husband is recovering. What a difficult experience for both of you. I do understand as each of my parents have had hospital stays at various times during the pandemic and visiting has not been permitted. Since neither of them can operate a mobile phone now, at times these periods were almost unendurable. The repercussions of the pandemic are indidious indeed. Of course your focus must be on your husband as he recouperates and blogging can happen as and when. Take good care of each other ❤️️
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September 23, 2021 at 4:18 pm
Thanks very much Sandra. I can imagine how unbearable it must have been when your parents where in hospital and you were unable to visit or communicate with them. My husband had his phone but having the use of only one arm/hand and being in blinding pain meant using it was limited, but at least it was there as a kind of lifeline.
The experience really did make us think even harder about the pandemic. Its repercussions are many and varied and insidious as you say.
I do hope that your parents are doing okay.
My husband has experienced a few setbacks, but generally is improving, though very slowly.
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September 17, 2021 at 9:55 am
Wishing Dave a quick recovery.
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September 23, 2021 at 4:14 pm
Thanks very much John. He is recovering though slowly.
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September 17, 2021 at 9:01 am
Glad your ‘worser’ half is better … or betterer, at any rate.
Going into hospital at any time is a sphincter tightening moment of note and especially in Sunny SA.
To have to be hospitalised under the current conditions is too awful to contemplate.
Love the sunbird. Not a species we get up here in Gauteng, as far as I’m aware of.
Fine looking dog you have there Carol. What breed is she?
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September 23, 2021 at 4:13 pm
Hi Ark – thank you very much. In fact the nursing care in the hospital was mostly good and the specialists excellent even though very busy. Working in a hospital during the pandemic must be unbelievably stressful.
My better half is doing okay – a few setbacks, but in the main is improving slowly.
Our dog is a rescue dog. Her mum was found by the SPCA living a feral life with three six-week old pups (one being our Amy). The mother was so wild she was caught with nets, and sadly euthanized. But they kept the little pups to find homes. They are likely mixed breed but mostly Africanis.
In case you are interested for more about the African domestic dog, dubbed Africanis, see here:
http://www.africanis.co.za/index.php
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September 17, 2021 at 7:07 am
Carol, I’m so very sorry. And yes, how difficult not to be able to spend time with your husband when he was so ill and you both needed to see one another. In the great scheme of things, blogging really doesn’t matter, though I do miss you when you and your posts are not there. Thank you for your charming bird images: a lovely way to begin my day. All good wishes and positive thoughts to you and your husband!
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September 17, 2021 at 3:07 pm
Hi Margaret, thanks very much for your good wishes and kind thoughts. It has been a huge ordeal and we are just so thankful my husband is now on the mend, albeit slowly, but that is to be expected.
The sunbird is indeed charming in every way.
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September 17, 2021 at 4:50 am
You have been missed! Medical crises are frightening, especially now, so I am glad that recovery at home is possible for your husband. There is no need to apologise – family are far more important than the rest of us put together. All strength to you both.
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September 17, 2021 at 3:04 pm
Thank you very much for your kind words and thoughts Anne. It was a very frightening time and the relief when my husband started improving and could then come home has been immense.
His progress is slow but it has been in the right direction each day for which we are most grateful.
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September 17, 2021 at 4:30 am
Hard to imagine not being able to be there with a loved one in the hospital. That must have been truly heart wrenching. It’s so good to hear your husband is on the mend and I’m sure all of your followers here (including me!) are hoping for continued improvement and recovery.
Your sunbird is utterly gorgeous and charming. Our hummingbirds are pretty drab in comparison.
Amy is also quite a beauty. How very clever of her to log on! 😉
It’s good to see you back, but do not worry about blogging until your husband is well. Your main objective is to take care of him. We’ll still be here.
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September 17, 2021 at 3:01 pm
Hi Gunta
Yes it was very hard not being able to visit, My husband was able to use his phone at times, enough for us not to be entirely cut off and for me to learn a bit about what was going on. Without that it would have been unbearable.
The sunbird is gorgeous – perhaps more colourful than your sunbirds but nowhere near as acrobatic!
Yes Amy is lovely and very proud of her logging on abilities!
Re blogging, I feel bad about losing touch, but as you say there are other priorities. My husband continues in his slow improvement, which is a huge relief. It seems it will take time for him to regain his strength.
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September 17, 2021 at 4:21 am
Sorry to hear about your husband’s health issues. It’s so unfortunate to be dealing with one issue and then have another spring up. I’m glad to hear he’s improving and look forward to you reentering the blogosphere as you’re able. First things first though!
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September 17, 2021 at 2:56 pm
Hi Graham – thanks very much. Yes dealing with two issues made it a bit more complicated. Fortunately the shoulder seems to be doing okay. My husband is very weak but making progress towards recovery. It is one of those one-day-at-time situations.
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September 18, 2021 at 5:48 am
Well I hope his recovery continues on a steady course.
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September 23, 2021 at 4:28 pm
Thanks Graham. It has been a bit up and down, but mostly in the direction of recovery.
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September 17, 2021 at 4:04 am
I’m glad to hear your husband is on the mend. I look forward to your return.
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September 17, 2021 at 2:54 pm
Hi Sandy – thank you very much for your kind thoughts.
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September 17, 2021 at 3:51 pm
You are most welcome, Carol.
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September 17, 2021 at 3:45 am
Dear Carol, I missed your weekly blogs. I’m holding you and your husband in my heart and thoughts and hope he makes a full recovery soon. Hugs and love, xxx
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September 17, 2021 at 2:53 pm
Dear Christeen, thanks so much for your kindness and the hugs are appreciated. He is doing better each day. He still can’t tolerate phone or computer screens but today for the first time he has been able to pick up a book to read, which is a most promising sign of significant improvement.
xxx
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September 17, 2021 at 2:52 am
I am relieved to hear that your husband is on the mend, Carol, and we wish him a full and speedy recovery!
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September 17, 2021 at 2:50 pm
Thanks Dries for your kind wishes that I greatly appreciate. Today he continues in his slow recovery.
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September 17, 2021 at 1:19 am
I am glad to read that your husband’s situation has improved. You must have been very worried, with an added burden of not being able to visit.
I will enjoy seeing your posts again. The photos of the sunbird are delightful.
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September 17, 2021 at 2:49 pm
Thanks so much for your kind message and good wishes Jane. It was a very worrisome time knowing that my husband was in such unrelenting pain and not really knowing what was going on. The relief when the pain eventually started alleviated was indescribable.
He is weak but improving perceptibly each day.
The delightful sunbird is almost like a small talisman of hope.
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September 16, 2021 at 11:52 pm
Sending good thoughts your way! Hope your husband continues to improve.
Oh, la la–love that sunbird!! 😉
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September 17, 2021 at 2:45 pm
Thank you so much Julie. So far he continues to improve.
The sunbird is a mood lifter of note!
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September 16, 2021 at 11:06 pm
I’m sorry your husband and you have had to face such a serious health challenge. Covid rules certainly exacerbate that challenge. It must have been extra worrisome not being able to see him. So glad that he is on the mend. Best to you both. ❤
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September 17, 2021 at 2:44 pm
Thanks very much Eliza. During this ordeal we gained a very personal perspective on Covid-related challenges even to patients who are not suffering directly from Covid. The pressure on healthcare workers is immeasurable. We are very grateful for the care my husband experienced. He is improving slowly each day.
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