Starting at midnight tonight it is South Africa’s turn to go into lockdown to try to slow down the transmission of the Covid-19 coronavirus disease so that our fragile health services might be less overwhelmed. Our government is acting decisively in the face of unimaginable challenges and we are all wondering how we will cope.
Even though feelings of fear and anxiety are inevitable, we have to try to maintain our footing, to be present and grounded so to be able to cope and take care of ourselves and others. Even if those others are physically remote, we need to be able to relate to them and stay in touch – especially family, friends and neighbours – online or by phone if we have the means to do this and of course we must never forget the kindness of strangers.
According to our lockdown regulations we have to stay at home – we will be allowed to go out only to buy essential food and other essential items, to collect social grants, or to get medicines or in certain instances when needing medical care. We will not be allowed out to go jogging or to take walks – not even to walk the dog.
My husband and I are the only two people in the house, with our two dogs and three cats. (We have already been socially isolating for two weeks from a friend who is living in our garden flat with her two cats.) We notice that when our anxiety levels start ratcheting up, the anxiety manifests too in our dogs and cats. We are learning to let the animals teach us how to tone down the anxiety and keep it in check. We are learning wisdom from animals. As we comfort them, so they comfort us.
Our cat Mingus – image scanned from a print taken in pre-digital days
I discovered by chance many years ago that one our cats, named Mingus, jumped on my lap and rubbed against me when I sang or rather hummed a song I was fond of at the time, the song being Randy Crawford’s ‘Almaz’. Mingus was a highly strung foundling, brought into our house as an emaciated kitten by one of our adult cats, named Mac. Mac mentored an adoring Mingus for exactly one month before he was killed in the street by a passing car. Despite this tragic loss of his mentor, Mingus survived his bad start in life, and in the ensuing years we learnt a lot from Mingus – and from Mac’s surviving sister Milly – about mutual calming and therapeutic caring, including the gentle use of song.
Foundling kitten Nougat a few days after his eyes had opened. Now eight years old he still has his beloved fluffy toys – a teddy and a dog
In more recent years, when another foundling kitten, whom we named Nougat, was in a state of anxiety I recalled Mingus’s favourite song ‘Almaz’, and started humming it softly. Nougat responded immediately by coming to me purring and gently head butting. There is something about that song that he, just like Mingus, finds very reassuring.
And so, in these anxious times I thought I would share with you three songs that Nougat responds to, as perhaps you too might find something in these melodies that strike a sympathetic chord and brings you a measure of comfort in these tough times.
Nougat all grownup
Almaz – Randy Crawford
The song, ‘Almaz’was written by the American singer Randy Crawford and it was released back in 1986. It was only when writing this post that I discovered the story behind the song.
Randy Crawford wrote the song after she met an Eritrean couple, political refugees, who had recently moved into her neighbourhood. Crawford was asked by the Eritrean man if she would write a song about his wife, Almaz (the name means diamond). Crawford did so, being very touched by the refugee couple’s deep enduring love – in the words of the song, Almaz was “born in a world where love survives”.
Once the song came out, Crawford learned that the couple had moved and she was unable to trace them. We can hope though that wherever they went, they did have the opportunity to hear this sweet song. I hope that its sweetness touches you too, as it evidently touched the feline hearts of both Mingus and Nougat.
Life on Mars – David Bowie
That the next song proved to be a big draw for Nougat I discovered by accident. Rather presciently as it turns out, during 2015 I started listening again avidly to songs by David Bowie. It was only a few months after I started reconnecting with Bowie’s music that I heard with shock that Bowie had died on 8 January 2016 (two days after his 69th birthday).
So anyway, one day during 2015 when Nougat was around three years old, I was idly singing – or humming – Bowie’s ‘Life on Mars’ – and Nougat came running in from another room, rather giddy at the song. It remained a favourite of his for several months – and I even learned the words, just for him.
The song has an interesting genesis. Before his breakthrough into fame and fortune, in the late 1960s Bowie, working as a lyricist, was given the opportunity to write English words to a 1967 French song ‘Comme d’habitude’, by Claude François and Jacques Revaux. It turned out that a version by Paul Anka was selected and it went on to become the huge Frank Sinatra hit ‘My Way’. Bowie reacted to the experience of unexpectedly hearing Sinatra’s ‘My Way’ set to the tune he had become familiar with, by using similar chord progressions to create the opening bars of ‘Life on Mars’. Pianist David Bennett compiled an entry on YouTube – “’Life on Mars?’ is revenge on Frank Sinatra” – which fills in some of the details and it includes extracts from two Bowie interviews – see here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dd-b8GbOPKg
The song’s initial tone is somewhat melancholy – Nougat likes this part the best – yet it unfolds in a crescendo (hard to sing even to Nougat) that is beguiling even if one is not a cat. The lyrics of the song start with a story about a day in the life of ‘the girl with the mousy hair’ and then fragments into concepts and phrases that are often described as surreal, and I find them fascinating each time I listen to the song, although I doubt that Nougat cares in the slightest about the lyrics.
‘Life on Mars’ first appeared on Bowie’s second album Hunky Dory in 1971, and was released as a single in 1973. This link is to the original video featuring Bowie wearing turquoise eye shadow and a turquoise suit.
Obsessives like me may want to investigate all the Bowie versions of this song available out there on the Internet and then progress onto the many cover versions too. My favourite cover is the version by the Ukulele Orchestra of Great Britain. They preface the performance by saying “This is a song about plagiarism … it wasn’t our own idea”. Their version features interplay not only between ‘Life on Mars’ and ‘My Way’, but also ‘For Once in my Life’, ‘Born Free’ and (briefly) The Who’s ‘Substitute’.
The Girl from Ipanema – Frank Sinatra & Antônio Carlos Jobim
Only a few weeks ago I came across a version of the famous bossa nova hit from the 1960s, ‘The Girl from Ipanema’, performed by its composer Antônio Carlos Jobim on guitar and (coincidentally in view of his connection to ‘Life on Mars’) Frank Sinatra.
I was charmed by this version and not least by the artistically swirling smoke from Sinatra’s cigarette. Perhaps the best-known version of the song is the one featuring Stan Getz (saxophone) with Astrud Gilberto (vocals). I remember my dad had the famous Getz/Gilberto album, back in the day when my dad’s eclectic tastes had him listening to Brazilian bossa nova and American jazz in addition to Stravinsky (his favourite), Debussy, Saint-Saëns and Baroque music, most especially Bach, among many others. He did come to tolerate my early childhood liking for the Beatles but he never developed a tolerance for rock music.
After coming across the Jobim and Sinatra version of ‘The Girl from Ipanema’ (Portuguese lyrics by Vinícius de Moraes and subsequent English lyrics by Norman Gimbel) the song became stuck in my brain – it is that sort of song. No wonder it has become the second most recorded song ever (after ‘Yesterday’ by the Beatles). It turned out that Nougat liked the song too.
As we live in lockdown in these difficult and heart-breaking times, perhaps a song and even a samba-style dance around the living room might bring some comfort and even some joy.
And by the way, if you can’t remember the lyrics, singing Nougat, Nougat, noo-noo, noo Nougat works quite well!
Keep safe everyone.
References:
MacAlpine, Fraser. [n.d.] 10 things you need to know about David Bowie’s ‘Life on Mars’. http://www.bbcamerica.com/anglophenia/2016/01/10-things-you-need-to-know-about-david-bowies-life-on-mars; Randy Crawford: BBC interview (2011). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oZcJgza0KZU; Wikipedia. 2019. Almaz (song). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Almaz (song); Wikipedia. Life on Mars (song). 2020. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_on_Mars_(song); Wikipedia. 2020. The Girl from Ipanema. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Girl_from_Ipanema
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May 18, 2020 at 4:22 pm
Awesome post! Thanks for sharing the knowledge and keep up the good work.
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May 18, 2020 at 6:28 pm
Thanks very much Brian. I appreciate your commenting.
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April 9, 2020 at 8:58 pm
Hi Carol, I hope you are keeping well in these difficult times. We are now in our third week of lockdown in the UK and it has become the new normal, I suppose. We try to find ways to support each other. We are permitted to go for walks here, provided it is only once a day and we keep local and away from other people.
Regarding animals and music, it may not be quite the classic song, but my dog loves the original Windows start up theme. I can only think that she heard it as a puppy and still associates it with the start of the human day.
I enjoy the Ukulele Orchestra of Great Britain’s work. They are great fun.
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April 10, 2020 at 2:23 pm
Hi Adele – these are strange times as people are in lockdown across the globe. Last night it was announced that our lockdown will be extended for another two weeks – drastic measures for a drastic calamity. Stay safe and at least you can get out once a day into the spring weather.
How funny your dog has such a pleasant association with the Windows start up theme. I can understand how the familiar can be comforting like that.
Glad you also like the Ukulele Orchestra. Coincidentally I have just come across two videos they have released in these times of social isolation – Thank you for the Music being one of them.
With very best wishes from Carol
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April 10, 2020 at 2:36 pm
Just had a look – their cats look like they invaded that video! Great 🙂
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April 10, 2020 at 7:48 pm
Yes indeed the cats almost stole the show 🙂
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April 2, 2020 at 8:00 pm
How sweet, love this 💖
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April 2, 2020 at 8:28 pm
Thank you Saania and for being in touch. Keep safe.
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April 3, 2020 at 5:48 am
My pleasure, stay safe as well! ❤️
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April 1, 2020 at 5:55 pm
Great song choices here!
Regards Thom
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April 2, 2020 at 8:15 pm
Thanks so much Thom. I’ll let Nougat know he is in good company 🙂
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March 30, 2020 at 1:22 pm
It’s lovely that you’ve found songs that calm the animals. 🙂 We haven’t pets as, while I love animals, I’m allergic to many. But we feed wild birds instead. One year, there was a little bird (I think it was a blue-tit but can no longer remember clearly now) that tapped incessantly on our kitchen window and nothing we did would make it stop. Then while I was washing dishes one day, I was singing ‘Fly me to the moon’ and the bird stopped tapping.
Your first choice, ‘Almaz’ – a beautiful song I hadn’t known about, thank you – sound to me a little like a cat’s maiow, in places… I wonder if that’s what the cats hear, too?
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March 30, 2020 at 2:35 pm
How amazing that singing ‘Fly me to the moon’ had that effect on the bird’s tapping! Another Sinatra connection 🙂 It is a great song – I think I might try it out on Nougat …
I will listen out for the miaow sounds in the recording of Almaz. Nougat does not noticeably respond to the recording of the song – only when I sing/hum it, perhaps because of the resonance of a live voice?
So glad you like the song.
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March 29, 2020 at 9:48 am
We no longer have any animals at home, but one of our neighbours has cats, the other a dog, who very generously deign to have a relationship with us (sometimes …). Their attention is strangely comforting, particularly at the moment when everyone else has to keep their distance. Continue to keep safe Carol, and to enrich our inboxes with your posts!
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March 29, 2020 at 7:51 pm
It is nice to have the attention and affection of animals – especially when so isolated from people in these times. Thank you, we are trying to keep safe while worrying for the country, the continent and the world. Thanks for the encouragement re blogging – it sometimes seems like an odd thing to do, but making connections with people who are so supportive is invaluable. I look forward to your posts so I hope that you keep connecting too.
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March 27, 2020 at 6:48 pm
Love this post Carol! Your cats are absolutely stunning! Nougat is my favorite – he reminds me of my miss Muppet also rescued as a tiny tot and bottle fed. Will listen to the music now and hum the tunes to my six kitties! Thanks for sharing.
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March 28, 2020 at 7:09 pm
Thanks so much Carol. One forms such a bond with hand-reared cats. All three of our cats (all different ages) were found abandoned before their eyes had opened and were all hand reared by us and they are very precious. I hope that Miss Muppet and your other kitties also respond to these songs, and that you enjoy singing them 🙂
Keep safe.
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March 27, 2020 at 4:27 pm
First of all, I am glad that South Africa is taking such decisive action. Here, in Massachusetts (because of course each of the 50 states is self-governing meaning that they individually make their decisions on this issues) we are still on a ‘stay at home advisory’ which in general people are being good about but daily I see people being foolish. This morning it was two people who are clearly gym buddies out for separate jogs meeting and not observing the 6’ distance as they had a good chat. That’s fine and you can say it’s their choice but if one of them is carrying the virus then they have passed it across and the spread becomes exponentially greater in no time flat. Paranoid? Moi? Maybe a little bit …. But this post – I just loved reading it. So fascinating the songs the puss cats respond to and most fascinating of all is that I sing ‘girl from Iponema’ to the dogs … it’s always been a favourite of The Bean and it does calm them. I will try the Randy Crawford and LIfe on Mars – both favourites of ours. Music is balm to troubled spirits and animals have such instinctive wisdom. I just loved this.
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March 28, 2020 at 7:06 pm
Hi Osyth, I agree with your observations about the repercussions of individuals not observing social distancing. What will it take to make people, including many so-called leaders, understand the seriousness of the situation?
I am so pleased that you liked this post, and how nice – and something of a coincidence – that your dogs also seem to respond to Girl from Ipanema and that they find it calming. I hope they also like the other two songs and I will be interested to hear if they do or not. The longest lasting favourite for Nougat is Almaz.
I agree with what you say about music and the instinctive wisdom of animals.
Keep safe.
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March 29, 2020 at 6:48 pm
It’s still happening here. The Mayor of Boston has just been on the TV saying that he has no choice but to close all the parks because people were out yesterday playing basketball, having picnics, kicking balls and throwing frisbees with no regard for distancing. It makes me so angry. I can’t understand the density of people, nor the selfishness. The dogs are going to introduce themselves one by one in the coming weeks and Juno will remember to thank you for Almaz …. she seems to love it!
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March 29, 2020 at 8:09 pm
I am sorry that that the thoughtless/selfish behaviour of some means that everyone gets shut out of parks and will be denied the benefits of being out in the open air and in nature.
I look forward to ‘meeting’ your dogs and I am delighted that Juno likes Almaz. I think I will include our two dogs in our song circle too and be more observant as to how they respond as up until now any response has been subtle. However, in other contexts one of the dogs loves dancing – in his own free style of course 🙂
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March 29, 2020 at 8:13 pm
We are fortunate not to live in the city but I really pity those that do. I shudder to think what the end of this will be because being forced to deny people even a place to walk peacefully and condemning them to hard sidewalks and no trees, nothing natural around them just bricks and concrete surely will have repercussions far beyond the sorry state we find ourselves in now.
Please include the dogs and share what their responses are. I would be fascinated and I am sure it will prove healing to you all. We love dancing dogs.
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March 29, 2020 at 8:21 pm
Yes life in the cities especially when living in apartments or other cramped conditions is tough beyond words. Walking in nature can provide a form of release for the high levels of stress and fear.
We had a storm this evening, and our dog Rory always sits or lies close during a storm as it helps him feel safe. So this evening I hummed Almaz while he lay at our feet and he did seem to relax a bit more, which was nice to see. It was not as expressive as Nougat, but expressive nonetheless.
Nougat hides in a cupboard during a storm and I have never thought to sing to him at such a time as he seems to prefer being left to shelter in his ‘cave’ – but perhaps next time I will!
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March 30, 2020 at 4:03 pm
Mallory is hyper sensitive to storms too. She tends to curl round the toilet in the downstairs powder room. But we are in the process of renovating it and yesterday we, too, had quite a big storm. She was absolutely beside herself. We sat either side of her and hummed and sang (loosely described as singing, neither of us has much of a voice) and eventually she relaxed. I don’t know if you can get Bach Flower Remedies in SA. I grew up with them because Doctor Bach lived very close to where we lived. They do a product called Rescue Remedy which we have found to be very helpful to hyper stressed dogs. Mallory expects it now and takes the drops gratefully. She seems to know it helps her.
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March 27, 2020 at 11:08 am
What a delightful thread you weave, Carol!
I for one believe the connections we’ve established in the blogging world over how ever many years we’ve been at it is going to be worth much more in these trying times that we could’ve ever imagined!
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March 28, 2020 at 6:59 pm
Thank you Dries.
I agree that these connections via blogging are incredibly heartwarming and supportive, especially in these times. Keep safe.
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March 27, 2020 at 10:25 am
Thanks for this delightful distraction device. Keep strong
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March 28, 2020 at 6:57 pm
Thank you Mariss, and wishing you strength too through these times. Keep well.
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March 27, 2020 at 10:07 am
Lovely thoughtful and intriguing post, Carol. I shall try playing these songs to my cats when they’re in the vicinity. (Not sure that anything would react with pleasure to my attempts to reproduce them myself!) Wishing you well in these challenging times. Stay safe 🙂
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March 28, 2020 at 6:56 pm
Thank you Sandra. Nougat seems to listen to my imperfect singing more than a recording by real singers! Maybe its something to do with the resonance of a real live even if imperfect voice that is close by? Anyway, even if your cats are not particularly responsive, why not hum along anyway just for yourself?
I hope that you are well and safe during these times and thanks for your good wishes.
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March 27, 2020 at 7:01 am
Great post, Carol. Your lockdown is stricter than ours. Not even allowed to exercise – that’s tough. Tomorrow I’m going to try and get in the water, which is allowed, but most of the water access points are closed so I have to enter somewhere more dangerous probably.
Loved your musical choices. The Ukelele Orchestra is awesome. I’ll have to add them to my collection. Stay safe and healthy.
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March 28, 2020 at 6:52 pm
Hi Graham, thank you, and I see from a subsequent comment of yours that you did make it safely in (and out) of the water. Hope you find similar opportunities during these times.
Great that you liked Nougat’s favourite tunes 🙂 The Ukelele Orchestra are good and I really enjoy what they do. Particularly addictive is their arrangement of Kate Bush’s Wuthering Heights. You stay safe and healthy too.
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March 29, 2020 at 12:41 am
I’ll have to check that one out.
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March 29, 2020 at 7:38 pm
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March 27, 2020 at 6:11 am
Loved this post! What a magical way to start Friday morning! Thank you. Stay safe🙏🏆
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March 27, 2020 at 8:31 pm
Thank you very much. And take care and may you stay safe too.
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March 27, 2020 at 5:53 am
Love this post. Thank you. I remember Milly and Mingus. ❤️
Stay safe 1 and all. God bless you .
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March 28, 2020 at 6:47 pm
Hi Debs, for some reason my reply to your comment did not stick, so I am replying again to say thank you and I am touched that you remember Milly and Mingus.
May you all stay safe too and sending lots of love xxx
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March 27, 2020 at 5:45 am
Such an interesting and thoughtful post, Carol, for the start of this strange lockdown time.
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March 27, 2020 at 8:28 pm
Thanks Christine. It is indeed strange and confronting. On this quiet autumn day – very quiet with so little background traffic noise on account of the lockdown – the sense of temporary disconnect is quite disorientating. Take care.
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March 27, 2020 at 4:39 am
Dear Carol, as we go into strange times your writing (and music) as always gives a lift of brightness to the day, thank you! We enjoyed the company of cats, purrsons, for many years, they were all part of our family and brought much joy, music has also been part of our lives! How wonderful to have special company through the next 21 days and beyond. Love and hugs, xxx
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March 27, 2020 at 8:26 pm
Thank you Christine. These are indeed strange days and sometimes it feels completely unreal as the reality is so hard to comprehend.
The company of cats (and dogs and nature in general) and music too do bring comfort and joy. All sorely needed now. We are indeed lucky to have such special companions.
Keep safe during this period and sending you love and hugs too. With very best wishes.
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March 30, 2020 at 10:33 am
Love and hugs to you dear lady! xxx
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March 30, 2020 at 2:29 pm
❤️
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March 27, 2020 at 1:20 am
Ah….but not to forget fab Mingus, either. It’s just the before and after of Nougat is especially enchanting…
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March 27, 2020 at 8:20 pm
Thanks Julie – Mingus was amazing – it is a shame that in the days of film photography one took fewer photos. Incredibly I can’t find even one photograph recording Mingus as kitten, and there are not that many of him as an adult either. Digital cameras have certainly changed the way we record things in our daily lives.
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March 27, 2020 at 1:16 am
Lovely post about cats and music, but let’s just face it, Nougat is a totally shining cat and the star of the post. Must be a wonderful presence in your home!! Whether in North America or Southern Africa, a cat is a special creature. Stay strong! -Julie
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March 27, 2020 at 8:15 pm
Well Nougat is the apple of my eye, even though I also completely adore our charismatic tabby cat Nina, and the eccentric Ella, so I love that you describe Nougat as you do. He is such an interesting and complicated character, I think his story may well be featured in a future post.
And I agree, indeed a cat is special creature.
May you stay strong too Julie, through these difficult and wretched times.
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March 26, 2020 at 8:54 pm
How sweet! I wonder if your kitties think you are purring when you hum/sing? I’ve noticed that two of my cats have liked opera. Must be the high Cs. 🙂
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March 27, 2020 at 8:09 pm
Maybe it sounds like purring, but they seem to respond noticeably only to a few songs.
Interesting that two of your cats liked opera and the high Cs!
Two of our cats when adolescents (Mac and Milly mentioned in this post) would play crazy chasing games round the furniture in the living room every time we played a Janis Joplin recording. Not quite opera I know 🙂
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